{"id":192,"date":"2017-12-11T00:08:35","date_gmt":"2017-12-11T00:08:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kissplash.com\/homepage\/?p=192"},"modified":"2022-07-09T17:14:14","modified_gmt":"2022-07-09T17:14:14","slug":"how-to-avoid-being-catfished","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kissplash.com\/homepage\/2017\/12\/11\/how-to-avoid-being-catfished\/","title":{"rendered":"How\u00a0To\u00a0Avoid\u00a0Being\u00a0Catfished\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>Catfish?<\/h2>\n<p>When I first started dating online after my divorce I didn&#8217;t know what a &#8220;catfish&#8221; was, aside from&nbsp;it&nbsp;being&nbsp;a whiskered&nbsp;fish.&nbsp; Over time I learned a whole new meaning for this seemingly innocent noun, so much so that it also became a verb.<span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>In case you aren&#8217;t aware &#8220;catfish&#8221;&nbsp;gained&nbsp;another definition entry in the&nbsp;Merriam-Webster dictionary in 2014; <em>a person who sets up a false personal profile on a social networking site for fraudulent or deceptive purposes.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>This new&nbsp;meaning&nbsp;of&nbsp;&#8220;catfish&#8221;&nbsp;comes&nbsp;from a movie and a series of the&nbsp;same&nbsp;name that is&nbsp;created&nbsp;and hosted by&nbsp;Nev&nbsp;Schulman and Max Joseph.&nbsp; The premise of the series is to help people find out if&nbsp;the person they met online is the person they proclaim to be in real life and was based off&nbsp;the movie that showcased the experience&nbsp;Nev&nbsp;had in finally meeting the person he had formed an online relationship with.&nbsp; That person turned out to be someone else and the concept of catfishing flourished.&nbsp; To learn more about his experience you can buy&nbsp;Nev&nbsp;Schulman&#8217;s book &#8220;In Real Life&#8221;&nbsp;here:<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"width: 120px; height: 240px;\" src=\"\/\/ws-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/widgets\/q?ServiceVersion=20070822&amp;OneJS=1&amp;Operation=GetAdHtml&amp;MarketPlace=US&amp;source=ac&amp;ref=tf_til&amp;ad_type=product_link&amp;tracking_id=kissplash-20&amp;marketplace=amazon&amp;region=US&amp;placement=1455584290&amp;asins=1455584290&amp;linkId=5fbac7b77cdb90d4f3f52ed08ed531ef&amp;show_border=false&amp;link_opens_in_new_window=false&amp;price_color=333333&amp;title_color=0066c0&amp;bg_color=ffffff\" width=\"300\" height=\"150\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><br \/>\n<\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>You can also purchase &#8220;Catfish: The Movie&#8221;&nbsp;here:<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"width: 120px; height: 240px;\" src=\"\/\/ws-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/widgets\/q?ServiceVersion=20070822&amp;OneJS=1&amp;Operation=GetAdHtml&amp;MarketPlace=US&amp;source=ac&amp;ref=tf_til&amp;ad_type=product_link&amp;tracking_id=kissplash-20&amp;marketplace=amazon&amp;region=US&amp;placement=B004EAFQG0&amp;asins=B004EAFQG0&amp;linkId=e0f17461f83a96f254e48728ae9e3ff8&amp;show_border=false&amp;link_opens_in_new_window=false&amp;price_color=333333&amp;title_color=0066c0&amp;bg_color=ffffff\" width=\"300\" height=\"150\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><br \/>\n<\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re only&nbsp;interested in seeing what &#8220;Catfish: The Series&#8221; is&nbsp;about Hulu has&nbsp;Season 1-Season 7&nbsp;available or you can buy DVDs by the season, starting here:<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"width: 120px; height: 240px;\" src=\"\/\/ws-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/widgets\/q?ServiceVersion=20070822&amp;OneJS=1&amp;Operation=GetAdHtml&amp;MarketPlace=US&amp;source=ac&amp;ref=tf_til&amp;ad_type=product_link&amp;tracking_id=kissplash-20&amp;marketplace=amazon&amp;region=US&amp;placement=B00AYOCN0W&amp;asins=B00AYOCN0W&amp;linkId=7173f5649067340ac73ce52ad94eed7c&amp;show_border=false&amp;link_opens_in_new_window=false&amp;price_color=333333&amp;title_color=0066c0&amp;bg_color=ffffff\" width=\"300\" height=\"150\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><br \/>\n<\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3>How to Spot a Catfish for Girls:&nbsp;<span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Girls listen close.&nbsp; There are a few things that catfish like to do&nbsp;or say to convince you they&#8217;re real.&nbsp; Once&nbsp;you&nbsp;know what to look for spotting them will be easy and you can avoid them.<span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>He only has one pic and says he doesn&#8217;t know how to add any more to the app.<span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233279&quot;:true,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li>He will tell you he loves you.&nbsp; You&#8217;ll have a pet name almost immediately.<span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233279&quot;:true,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li>He can&#8217;t meet you right away because he is in another country on business.&nbsp; Then when you do make plans he flakes or goes ghost.<span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233279&quot;:true,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li>He is stuck in another country and needs a hand in getting back home as everything but the phone was stolen and he doesn&#8217;t have any family or friends but you to help him.<span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233279&quot;:true,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li>He wants to get you off of the dating site as fast as he&nbsp;can.&nbsp; He will say things like, &#8220;I don&#8217;t like this site.&nbsp; Here&#8217;s my number so we can stay in touch.&#8221; Or &#8220;Do you have KIK?&#8221;<span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233279&quot;:true,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li>He doesn&#8217;t answer any questions specifically.&nbsp; Catfish are sometimes bots.&nbsp; They are limited in understanding complex questions and will ask another question to a question or say something that makes no sense at all.&nbsp; &nbsp;This is because they are simply programs to collect as much information as they can to help fraud you out of money or even personal information (telephone numbers, names, birthdays and emails).&nbsp; This is because your information has value in some underground markets and people more readily share information with someone they&#8217;re interested in getting to know on a dating site then anywhere else.<span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233279&quot;:true,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li>He&#8217;s an&nbsp;entrepreneur, a retired&nbsp;professional, self-employed&nbsp;or in the armed forces.<span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233279&quot;:true,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li>He&#8217;s&nbsp;widowed with very young children.<span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233279&quot;:true,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h4>Reasons why this works on women:<\/h4>\n<p>Women are emotional beings.&nbsp; They are easily swayed by their emotions and can fall in love with a guy who they feel they can nurture a long-time relationship with.&nbsp; Females like to help guys who seem like they are in a bad spot to show how much love and support they can offer him.&nbsp; Depending on&nbsp;their age, women are either not ready for a relationship or children or they are looking for someone to have a serious relationship with that may include having children.&nbsp; These are the things that a catfish will use to get as much as they can from contacting a female who is dating online.&nbsp; They will play on emotions and not looks.&nbsp; In fact, most catfish will say looks don&#8217;t matter and that love is the only thing they want from her, right before they dig into her savings.<\/p>\n<h3>How to Spot a Catfish for Guys:<span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Guys you are not&nbsp;impervious to a catfish&nbsp;attack.&nbsp; However,&nbsp;some of the&nbsp;approaches&nbsp;are&nbsp;quite different from the approach made to girls.&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;<span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>She&nbsp;has a lot of hot-looking professional looking photos that are updated once a week<span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233279&quot;:true,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li>She likes to party and doesn&#8217;t want kids right now because she&#8217;s traveling the world.<span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233279&quot;:true,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li>The distance on the dating app does not match what she is telling you.<span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233279&quot;:true,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li>She&nbsp;has a&nbsp;professional&nbsp;job that allows her to travel a lot, so she doesn&#8217;t always have service to Skype&nbsp;or an ability to talk on the phone&nbsp;with you.&nbsp; In fact, her phone may have a broken camera, so she can&#8217;t Snapchat with you until she gets it fixed.<span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233279&quot;:true,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:720,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240,&quot;335559991&quot;:360}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li>She may be a widow or be from another country.<span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233279&quot;:true,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:720,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240,&quot;335559991&quot;:360}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li>She&#8217;s&nbsp;says she&#8217;s&nbsp;a morally upright person and&nbsp;very&nbsp;religious and she is looking to marry soon.<span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233279&quot;:true,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:720,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240,&quot;335559991&quot;:360}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li>She will try to get you to go to a link that will show you more intimate images or videos of her, but&nbsp;the link&nbsp;requires you download something or asks you to sign in with a common app.&nbsp;<span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233279&quot;:true,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:720,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240,&quot;335559991&quot;:360}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h4>Reasons why this works on men:<\/h4>\n<p>Men are proven to be visual beings.&nbsp; They are also extremely romantic and can easily picture marriage and romance with someone they are smitten with.&nbsp; Males like to help when they are asked for it by females they are interested in to show their worth and to endear her to him.&nbsp; Depending on their age, men are either partying like there&#8217;s no tomorrow or settling down and looking for someone to settle down with.&nbsp; These are the things that a catfish will use to get as much as they can from contacting a male who is dating online.&nbsp; &nbsp;They will use a man&#8217;s romantic visual fantasies by telling them things that fire up the imagination in order to get their interest, and right after that, their bank account.<\/p>\n<h5>Last Thought<\/h5>\n<p>None of these by themselves make someone a catfish&#8230;but if you are seeing more than one of these are true for the person&nbsp;you&#8217;re trying to make a connection with&#8230;then you are probably dealing with a catfish.&nbsp; Also realize that not all catfish are trying to prey on you.&nbsp; Some catfish may genuinely like you, but be hiding their true self from you because they are afraid to be themselves and horrified at the fact of losing communication with you.&nbsp; However, this does not make it okay to lie to you over and over again.&nbsp; Don&#8217;t be a victim to any scenario that involves a catfish; if they can lie to you for years about who they are there is no telling what else they will lie about.<\/p>\n<h3>How&nbsp;To&nbsp;Protect Yourself From a Catfish Invasion:<span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Let&#8217;s keep it real.&nbsp; It doesn&#8217;t matter if you&#8217;re a guy or a girl,&nbsp;anyone can be catfished&nbsp;with the right bait.&nbsp; In fact,&nbsp;statistics on dating\/online romance scams climb higher every year.&nbsp; The reason is simple; people want to believe that their soulmate is out there waiting to be found.<\/p>\n<p>And maybe your soulmate <em>is<\/em> out there, but a true soulmate will not leave you hanging, or steal info from you.&nbsp; In fact, your soulmate would want to crush whoever is trying to use you and waste your precious time and money.<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s go over some things that you should do to keep someone from scamming you.&nbsp; They are kind of obvious but can be overlooked when endorphin and dopamine hormones are flooding your brain from all the &#8220;babes&#8221;, &#8220;I love you&#8217;s&#8221; and &#8220;I want you&#8217;s&#8221; that you&#8217;re getting from a catfish.<\/p>\n<h4>DO:<\/h4>\n<p>Try to get a meeting in real life with the person you are messaging as soon as possible.<\/p>\n<p>Take advantage of the site&#8217;s privacy practices by staying on the site until you meet someone in person.<\/p>\n<p>Do read books or articles on catfish, online romance scam artists and ghosting (when a person disappears after making what feels like a real connection with you, either on or offline).<\/p>\n<p>If they have only one image of themselves ask if they can provide more.&nbsp; &nbsp;Some of these sites allow you to add an image to your message.&nbsp; Catfish usually steal photos from google image search and will probably say &#8220;I can&#8217;t, the site won&#8217;t let me&#8221; or &#8220;I don&#8217;t know how&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Do tell other people who are important in your life that you&#8217;re online dating.&nbsp; It&#8217;s nothing to be ashamed about.&nbsp; Lots of people really do find their soulmate by using dating sites.<\/p>\n<h4>DO NOT:<\/h4>\n<p>Do not give any personal information to someone on a dating site.&nbsp; They haven&#8217;t earned the right to know it yet.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t share pictures with them in a message if you have already pasted 6-10 images of yourself into your profile.&nbsp; They don&#8217;t need them.&nbsp; They may want them to catfish other people, either girls or guys.&nbsp; Or they may have a personal fetish about something you have (your hair, your eyes, your painted toenails in pic #4).&nbsp; If you have a ton of photos up on your profile they have all they need to decide if they like you and want to meet you.<\/p>\n<p>Do not send someone money if you don&#8217;t know them.&nbsp; They could be using it for anything once it&#8217;s in their hands!&nbsp; They could be lying to you about where it&#8217;s going or what it&#8217;s being used for and you don&#8217;t have any way of getting it back.&nbsp; You won&#8217;t have any proof of it ever existing after it&#8217;s gone.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t underestimate a catfish&#8217;s intelligence.&nbsp; Some of the people involved in scamming you and other people are very smart and can do more than just hit you with a hole in your wallet.&nbsp; How about a hole in your reputation from some of things you may have said in confidence to catfish?&nbsp; How much is that worth to you not to have those secrets spilled all over the internet?&nbsp; How about a hole in your heart?&nbsp; Will you trust anyone again after such a betrayal?<\/p>\n<p>Do not waste your time pining for an online-only love.&nbsp; If someone claims to really like you or love you they will find a way to meet you and court you.&nbsp; They will make every effort to be in your life.&nbsp; They will tear down mountains, swim through an ocean and face countless horrors to be by your side.&nbsp; If he lives a state away and says &#8220;I can&#8217;t meet you, I know it&#8217;s been a year, but I still don&#8217;t have a car.&nbsp; Maybe you can send me money to buy one?&#8221; are you willing to waste your money or time on his ignorance of available forms of public transportation?<\/p>\n<h3>In Conclusion<\/h3>\n<p>Meeting on a online dating site is not shameful.&nbsp; It is becoming the social norm to seek out a partner by using the internet as a base to find the right partner, even if he or she seems a world away.&nbsp; With this becoming a more common way to participate in the dating world many are becoming lax at protecting their identity, both online and off.&nbsp; They are so used to just handing over information for a variety of sites that they forget they are basically meeting strangers when someone online starts talking to them.&nbsp; This is a very dangerous premise as a grand majority of online daters are older and more prone to online predators and scammers.<\/p>\n<p>My suggestion to you, dear reader, is that you ask yourself three things when you are answering an email from someone on a dating site:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Does this person live at a reasonable distance so that I can meet him within a two week period of time?<\/li>\n<li>Does this person seem to have a means to take care of him\/herself?<\/li>\n<li>Does this person seem like they are drama-free and able to start a new life with me by their side?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>If you can answer &#8220;yes&#8221; to all three of these questions then it&#8217;s possible that this person is real.&nbsp; If any one of these questions has an answer of &#8220;no&#8221;, you have to ask yourself if you are willing to take a chance that they are not a catfish.<\/p>\n<p>Finding out if someone is truly a catfish, though, would take some detective work.&nbsp; Which you can do by watching all the Catfish: The Series episodes or by contacting the show itself.&nbsp; Still, the best thing to do if you even suspect a person is catfishing you is to just cut the line that binds you together.&nbsp; Let him or her swim back into the sea of people that are searching and throw another line out to find your soulmate.&nbsp; Just like in real-life fishing, getting a great catch takes patience.&nbsp; Don&#8217;t be misled by the multitudes of catfish that exist.&nbsp; If you catch one while online dating, recognize the signs that it is a catfish and toss the person back out of your message box.&nbsp; Eventually you&#8217;ll snag up a great catch and you won&#8217;t have to worry about searching anymore.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">KISSY<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">OXOXO<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Catfish? 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